Acceptance: A Core Emotional Need

Who I Am In Christ Series, part 2 Neil T. Anderson’s classic books Victory Over the Darkness and The Bondage Breaker were both published in 1990.  That’s when he developed his “Who I Am In Christ” list. That was 34 years ago, and yet there is still an appallingly high percentage of Christians who still … Read more

The Issue of Identity

  Who I Am In Christ Series, part 1 So many people these days are going through an identity crisis.  They simply don’t know who they are. Sadly, many of those people are Christians.  They may go to church regularly, read their Bibles, pray.  They’re doing all the things.    If you were to ask them, … Read more

Jumping Through Hoops

In the Beginning…There Were Hoops. I learned about jumping through hoops at an early age. Although I did not find out about it until I was in my thirties, my dad was a closet alcoholic.  My mom helped keep it a secret, but resented being forced into this role.  She lashed out at Dad, belittling … Read more

The Next Verse

What Comes After John 3:16? Do you have a favorite Bible verse?  Many people do.  Some people call it their “life verse.” Probably the most famous verse in the Bible is John 3:16.  Most Christians can quote it by heart:  “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes … Read more

Set Free From Shame

by Tim Tracy What Is Shame? Shame is a difficult emotion to express. You may experience it as a feeling of not being good enough, a worry that there’s something wrong with you, or an overwhelming feeling that you’re bad, dirty, or inferior.  In her book The Gifts of Imperfection, social researcher Brene Brown explains, … Read more

A Thorn In My Flesh

“Therefore, in order to keep me from becoming conceited, I was given a thorn in my flesh, a messenger of Satan, to torment me.  Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me.  But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in … Read more

The Impact Of A Teacher

My Life Begins…In Second Grade Awhile back I was reading a devotional by Dr. David Jeremiah, when a paragraph jumped out at me:  “God sends various people into our life.  Some encourage us.  Some rebuke us.  Some help us recover.  They all play a part in shaping us to be the person God wants us … Read more

Righteous? Who, Me?

  Righteous?  Yeah, right. What goes through your mind when you hear the word “righteous”?  Do you think of someone ‘better than the rest of us’, like Mother Theresa or Billy Graham?  Do you think of a standard that is unattainable in this life? Do you think of yourself? I’m guessing that last one’s not … Read more